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12Gigi April 4, 2010 at 11:55 am

Of course he did not contact after I left and he went back to where he lives already. I am totally cool with that because I don't expect someone so busy to contact me first. Also, I can understand that he doesn't want to give me the wrong feeling he wants to commit. I am happy if we can keep contact, understand each other more (actually, we are different culture too), be friends and see if we are really right for each others.

 

13Gigi April 4, 2010 at 11:56 am

They said all the things he did was just to get me in bed and he is a total player. I started going crazy after my friends’ comments. I guess my biggest worry is they are right and he will never contact even I write to him. Do you think they are right that the talking was fake and he will not contact again? I know the steps were already wrong but is there a chance that we can still start from friendship, see each others when we have the chance and see what will happen from there? Thanks you and sorry for the long message.

 

14susanawalsh April 4, 2010 at 6:57 pm

Gigi, I think this guy has made it very clear he does not intend to follow up in any way. You went over to his hotel for sex, and he then returned to another country. Men are capable of chatting and talking without feeling any interest in meeting up again. If he wanted to see you again, he would have already acted on that. Actions speak louder than words, and he has left for good.

 

Please do not waste another minute thinking of this man. It doesn't sound like he is interested in friendship or anything other than sex.

 

15should be a character in He's Just Not That Into You May 19, 2010 at 11:46 pm

Hi there!

Wow, I’ve never read situations that so closely resemble the one I’m in! I’ll give you an overview..(hmm i’m a little nervous that he’ll read this! haha)

So, my freshman year of college. I met this guy in one of my classes..and right away I got that vibe that he was kind of interested. Like, he just gave me that look. I wasn’t too too interested in him at first but I thought he was really attractive. Anyways, I found out he had a serious girlfriend. It didn’t bother me at all in the beginning since I didn’t like him. Then one night, me and my girlfriends went out, and he and his guys went with us. This was really early on in the year, and was the night we had our first conversation. He was soo flirtatious and we were really compatible. He asked for my number also. At this point, I had developed a huge crush on him.. Months went by and he continued to flirt with me. I mean like really flirt, and gave me a bunch of compliments. He would text me like seriously every day to do homework together. We got to be really good friends. I was miserable though because the guy had a girlfriend back home!