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https://loveawake.startdigitaal.nl/

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I also appreciate getting the male point of view. For example, I never thought of this:

 

“Men, being slightly smarter than portrayed on sit-coms, realize that keeping beautiful women (especially in the hook-up culture) is very, very difficult, and many of them automatically put beautiful women in the hookup-only category.”

 

Specifically, I hadn't thought about hookup culture making women more difficult to hang onto from a guy's point of view, but it makes total sense.

 

So thanks.

 

9bblove October 19, 2009 at 4:39 pm

Oh my god Susan, I'm just scrolling through and I almost didn't recognize myself. Ha! I'm so flattered. Thanks for the shout out, as always. I'll be blogging about this later … have a lot to say on this topic.

 

10susanawalsh October 19, 2009 at 4:47 pm

bblove, I would LOVE to hear your views on this topic. When I found this pic on your blog I knew I had to use it. Your appearance vs. your sharing in the universal struggles was just too mind-blowing to ignore. BTW, today's post touches on this theme as well. Maybe you're too perfect!

 

11Dashiell October 21, 2009 at 1:24 pm

Terrible advice:

 

What’s a gorgeous girl to do?

 

•Bide your time, your day will come.

 

Congratulations, you've hit menopause and will never be a mother.

 

•Do not allow yourself to be objectified and used as an opportunity for some player to boast about having nailed you.

 

Femenists are the worst. If you get the feeling the guy is trying to play you, reject him. If you don't get that impression, don't invite it.

 

•Focus on friendships first. A guy who cares for you as a friend is less likely to use you, and more likely to develop real feelings.