https://bit.ly/3AxjaEe https://bit.ly/32yUA9D https://bit.ly/3g1auwo https://bit.ly/3nZ5YCY https://bit.ly/3IC7dA7 https://bit.ly/3r1kf40 https://bit.ly/3qYKp7E https://bit.ly/3G8cm0V https://bit.ly/3g1m4rE https://bit.ly/3rQWAmi https://bit.ly/33NTwiS https://bit.ly/3rQDjkM https://bit.ly/3fWVC2b https://bit.ly/3KLg18D https://bit.ly/3g0PC8I https://bit.ly/35qwHlH https://bit.ly/3IFzVQq This site is the one that's been the most help to me in understanding just what the heck I wanted, and in giving me the courage to suggest it to my husband. I had known for a long time that I craved spankings, but when we tried it, it just didn't work. But you guys helped me understand that there was a lot more involved than spanking, and also the weird fact that you can still crave something that hurts. Louise, I especially appreciate your calm, humorous sanity. I had a distinct lightbulb moment when reading your posts - "If this sensible middle-aged lady likes this, and incorporates it as part of a normal life, then I could too!" I managed to get here sort of sideways, during a web search for ways to rejuvenate my vanished sex drive. I had managed to figure out that I craved very strong, painful stimuli. But most websites about that are either gross or that weird BDSM mixture of sadism and bureaucracy. There just wasn't very much feeling, it seemed to me. So I stumbled across the "Loving DD" blog, which I found powerfully arousing. But also weird. It was kinky as all get out, but with no sex. I was thinking, "This is great! But where's the part where I roll over on my spanked bottom and yell, 'Have your way with me, you big hairy man!'?" And of course I'd read that this "domestic discipline" was being touted as Biblical by some Christians, which raised a whole 'nother set of questions: So God wants all the naughty wives to be stood in the corner with their bottoms bare? Really? What on earth goes on at these people's church services? And can I join?