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Let me make this clear. Out there, there is some man reading this. Not a wonderful strong Alpha male, but a twisted individual who gets his kicks hurting women. Publicizing and making acting out rape fantasies sound like a good thing, may be all the fuel he needs to go and act out his fantasy on an unwilling victim.

If it's consensual, it ain't rape, it's psychodrama. And my problem with something that severe is, it may work for some rape victims but what if in others it triggers the fight response and she goes into a blind rage, actually harming her husband? Once you let all those barriers down, it's like Pandora's box. You don't know what will come roaring out.

by a Taken In Hand reader on 2004 Aug 14 - 00:12 | reply to this comment
Well done Jayda!
Jayda, I am full of admiration for the way you have used your rape experience to heal yourself, and I think folk who want to put you down for what you did with your husband have it backwards. You are also very fortunate in having a husband courageous enough to co-operate with you in your endeavour. A very fine account of a brave act.

Malcolm

by Malcolm on 2004 Aug 14 - 02:51 | reply to this comment
Is this web site creating rapists?
A reader wrote: