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October 12, 2009 at 1:35 pm
Harmony says:
@ Marc
First you state your preference in women
GuruOfReason2, I have something to say about who OkCupid attracts. From what I am hearing, OkCupid doesn’t attract alot of Black people who want to date inside their own ethnicity. I am an African-American male and I don’t seek to date exclusively within my ethnicity. In fact, I am more than happy to date a White woman, Hispanic woman, Asian woman or any other ethnicity.

and then you write this:

I looked at the stats and Black men having the least reply rates is kind of sad. It appears from the stats that Black men aren’t being considered desirable in the eyes of some people. It angers me and then it doesn’t always surprise me. Whenever some people think of Black men, everything undesirable comes to mind, mainly aggression, violence and other ills of society. That is what many people envision when they envision a Black man. That atitude is in the dating arena. I don’t like it one bit.

You can’t complain and get upset because non-black women may not prefer a black man when you yourself don’t prefer black women. You can’t have it both ways.

@Marc